Monday, September 21, 2015

The Truth About Real Love We Are Never Taught

~Look, Folks~ Humans are not biologically designed for lifetime sexual monogamy. We have the ability to love MANY throughout the course of our lifetimes, and it's healthy for us to do so, as variety enriches us and our experiences. It helps shape who we are as spiritual beings. We become happier, wiser, and more enlightened when we consistently enhance our lives with new and different people. The Elite know this, and they don't want anyone to be happy...or "smarter" than they are. So what do they do? They constantly inundate our culture (and minds) with Disney happily-ever-after-fairy-tale-I'm-gonna-love-you-and-only-you-forever hooey, mixed with reality show after reality show centering around finding your "One True Love" and the perfect wedding dress for your overly-expensive princess party. And don't even get me started on the music with its toxic messages of codependency disguised as sugary-sweet romance ballads. We are all being taught from an early age to believe this perpetual lie that our happiness depends SOLELY on other people, namely "Our Soulmate, Our Other Half", this mythical human being that will fulfill every single need we have for all eternity. It's insane when you really look at this concept logically and objectively. Why aren't we taught to be independent and to love ourselves first? To view ourselves as a WHOLE person that doesn't need another person to "complete" us? Because then the Elite wouldn't be able to control anyone (or profit from our misery, i.e. divorce). The Bible has absolutely been tampered with. If I had a dollar for every time I heard someone say that God created marriage... :/ Traditional marriage/monogamy is about controlling someone else and obliterating their freedom. Love is a powerful liberating force that naturally wants to expand and be shared with others. How can that possibly be done when you're vowing to forsake everyone except your one "special snowflake"? That is not real love. That is a false, perverted form of "love" derived from Ego, which, when fiddled with, can quickly turn a seemingly healthy attachment into a "Fatal Attraction" type of situation.  This sick territoriality, in its many variations the seed of each and every war in human history (IMO), has been humanity's undoing.  It is rooted in fear, and love and fear cannot peacefully co-exist.  Makes me indeed wonder if we are born instinctively knowing how to share but are, ironically, "untaught" by vigorously watching the hypocritical behavior of adults during our very important formative years...definitely something for an objective mind to ponder...

*Source- 40 Years of Life Experience






Celebrating 40 Years of Life

A miracle...as I have had to continually overcome so many struggles and challenges since my childhood...some I felt, at times, were insurmountable. In my early 20's, I allowed myself to waste away to a dangerously low 84 lbs. I always felt I needed to be perfect for not just myself but everyone else, too. I want to thank, from the bottom of my heart, those special angels in my life who never stopped loving and supporting me, flaws and all, throughout the years. I appreciate every hug, every encouraging word, and every bit of warm sunshine that helped lift my sensitive soul out of some of the deepest, darkest, blackest chasms into which a person could ever plunge. The road ahead is still going to be a hard one for me, but at least now I can see a little bit of light at the end of a very long, dark tunnel. Believe me, it is the sweetest sight. God Bless you. :) <3